The Real Guide to Dating After Divorce
And Finding The Person Of Your Dreams

Here’s some goovy articles that will hopefully give you more detail on one or more of the steps outlined in “Single Again”.  I’ll add at least one or two every month, as I find them,

Wherever I can, I like to find other authors and post their articles here, just to give you some different perspective on the same issue.  And of course, on occasion I’ll write an article too…just so you don’t forget who I am :)



“The Love List”
By Alice Gorman
From the February 2008 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine

Was it coincidence or magic? Alice Gorman wrote 100 things she wanted in a man, burying the list in a closet. And then, oddly enough, a man who matched the list almost exactly strolled into her life. Seriously, people, how did that happen? After you read the story Martha Beck, O’s life coach, explains why it worked.
Our first real disagreement erupted at the kitchen table on a Saturday morning in late May. Aubrey and I hardly knew each other at the time. We had spent a total of three weekends together since we met in early March—the first on a blissful fishing trip in the Ozarks, the other two trading visits between his home on the Eastern Shore of Maryland and mine in Memphis. We had both been married before: he, a recent widower; I, married twice, a divorcee and a widow. He was retired. I was the owner of a contemporary art gallery in Memphis and a partner in a gallery on 57th Street in New York City. We’d been introduced by his cousin from Baltimore, a lifelong friend of mine. The attraction was instantaneous, so much so that we spent those six days together in pure enjoyment of our late-in-life pleasures and commonalities, believing that each of us had found perfection in the other. Without warning, during our second cup of coffee after breakfast, we began having a stupid argument.

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